Friday, 23 December 2011

My Books of 2011

I really enjoy reading, and I think you can learn a lot from it too. Sometimes it's hard to find the time, but I try and read a few pages every night before I go to sleep, it's nice and relaxing and helps take your mind off other things as well.

Here are some of the books I have been reading this year.

Fiction


The first time I tried to read this I hated it and gave up, the second time I loved it! I like books which make you think and consider circumstances you've never thought about before, and I think this one is really cleverly written with an unusual structure. Very sad though!

This was my holiday reading, and I found it slightly... I'm not sure if cliche is the word, but the main character I felt was a bit unoriginal (standard upper class mother, pressured to be perfect with a mean husband blah blah). Considers at the way we can look down on, be judgmental to, or even repelled by others, which I think is a worthwhile thing to think about.

Well it has to be said I love Jurassic Park films.. in fact any film with a big ravaging beast - Jaws, Lake Placid etc etc. So I couldn't help but enjoy the book, despite the fact it made me dream about raptors. The film is quite different, which means you don't already know what's going to happen, so be prepared for a lot of suspense! 

This book is written as a satire on the Russian Revolution and Soviet Communism. As I understand, it basically describes the history of this by using the metaphor of animals taking over a farm and trying to run it themselves. Now, history is usually something I avoid, but somehow this context makes the history so much more interesting than a text book! However, it would have been good to read it alongside a commentary so I really understood the equivalent real events and characters.

This book is very highly acclaimed by critics it seems, but I can't say I enjoyed it that thoroughly. The author certainly has a unique style of writing, but I struggled to understand what the main message behind the book (or more precisely, behind the suicides) was - maybe there isn't meant to be one. Solid characters, good description, interesting concept. But I'm struggling to be enthusiastic beyond that.

My current reading, and my last Austin! Of course I really like it, how couldn't I, it's just classic Jane! 

I really enjoyed this book, it shows how one decision impacted each of the characters for the rest of their lives. And perhaps it sounds morbid but I enjoy it when books don't always have a fairytale ending - because we all know real life isn't like that.

I took a while to get into this book. I think the main thing I enjoyed was reading about a different culture, and how it changed through generations. I struggled to warm to some of the characters. A nice read but not one that will stick with me for long I don't think.

Quite an odd read to be honest! Another unusual way of writing, it doesn't always seem to flow very well. It feels like it's written like a documentary not a story - lots of odd, random events and everyday detail mixed in with a rough storyline. So it's quite realistic I suppose. Does make you consider how the best things in life are free. But it didn't save my life.


Non-Fiction


The story of one of the key actors in bringing Christianity to China, despite it being illegal at the time. Incredible story of perseverance, and shows how God is still very much alive and working today - and the amazing things He can do if we have the faith to trust Him to work in the hardest of circumstances. Brother Yun maintains a positive attitude even when being tortured in jail. Very inspiring. 

A book I was told to read for my course, although it ended up being quite irrelevant actually! Still, interesting look at humans through history, and how several societies like the Easter Islanders and the Mayans have collapsed through over-use of natural resources. We never learn, huh.

Another book for my course, although thankfully very relevant! Extracts from a number of writings - some much more interesting and understandable than others! A good read if the subject interests you.

To be honest I would say if you read one book next year this should be it. Absolutely shocking. Discusses how badly women are still treated in many countries, and the horrors of sex trafficking, slavery and general abuse. It's mostly agreed that improving gender equality is one of the main keys to reducing poverty as it has so many knock-on effects, so this book is really tackling a major issue. Although it holds a lot of horrific stories, it is not all doom and gloom and gives a lot of practical ways to help. And if I can't persuade you, there are recommendations from Jolie and Clooney on the cover so maybe they can sway you!

Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Telegraph Christmas Appeal: Riding for the Disabled

Had a lovely time tonight back working at Riding for the Disabled. We had a Christmas party, the ponies wore tinsel and we played some games! Afterwards went out for a meal with the other helpers. I love going back and seeing everyone :) 

Luke -
 one of the kindest ponies you will ever meet!

I'm a bit wary of talking about RDA, don't wanna sound like I'm bragging about my "charidee" work, but in reality I enjoy it so much, it really is a pleasure not a sacrifice. I wanted to write a bit about it because RDA (Riding for the Disabled Association) is one of the Telegraph's Christmas Charity Appeals this year, so I thought it would be cool to write my own thing on it and maybe inspire someone to contribute to it! 

Riding on the Ridgeway

RDA does a wonderful service to it's riders. Riding is a very effective form of physiotherapy, and helps improve balance and strength as well as confidence. I think, for the kids I help at least, it must be great just to be able to join in a sport fully (a lot of them are not good walkers and would really struggle with most conventional sports) and also be in an environment where they are not labelled as "the disabled one". Riding is open to a whole spectrum of disabilities, some very severe. Seeing themselves improve and learn, and even the basic ability to steer and 'control' such a big animal really boosts confidence. Finally, it's a lot of fun! A lot of the riders have had to go through horrific surgeries and illnesses besides the everyday setbacks they face, so it is wonderful to see them do something which brings so much joy.

For those not quite old enough for gymkhanas, a fancy dress competition!

I started helping with children's lessons at RDA on a Wednesday night when I was about 16 for the Service section of my Duke of Ed award. I ride myself and had spent many a weekend when I was a pony-mad 13 year old providing free labour at my own stables (in the desperate hope of a free ride in return), so really I was completely in my comfort zone helping deal with and lead the horses at RDA. Working with the kids phased me a little more - I think anybody who hasn't had much personal experience around people with disabilities can tend to be a little awkward about it, especially in our Politically Correct centered world. You worry about saying the wrong thing or using the wrong phrase. After a while I learnt just to chill - most of the time it's just about not beating around the bush. If we're doing games for example, you just ask what hand they would prefer to use, or which is their stronger arm. If they're stuggling with something like kicking the horse on, you ask to see if their legs are strong enough to keep trying (if not, most of the ponies respond well to voice, and understand "walk on", "trot on" etc). The kids aren't phased by these kind of questions - I think partly because they know this is an environment they won't be judged in, and they don't feel different to everyone else. 

Little ones need lots of helpers!

The disabilities range from Down's Syndrome to blindness to Cerebral Palsey to missing limbs and everything inbetween - though to be honest, we don't tend to focus too much on the condition. A lot of the kids I have known for years and I still couldn't tell you for definite what condition they have - I just know what is needed to know and what their capabilities are. I think this shows how basically we focus on what the kids CAN do, not everything they CAN'T.

'Most improved rider' - most prestigious award at the RDA funday!

As well as weekly lessons, a lot of other activities go on. Every so often trips are organised, like this week a lot of the kids at my lesson went to Olympia. There is an annual funday, which is basically an open day at the stables, where families are invited to have lunch and watch the riders compete in gymkhanas and obstacle courses, with a prize giving at the end. There is also an annual holiday for the horses on the ridgeway - they go to stay at a farm kindly lent to RDA right out in the countryside. Riders come up every day and take some of the horses out, so it is a lovely opportunity for them to have nice hacks as well. Us helpers are also invited for the odd ride for a thankyou - on the first day we ride the horses out as they tend to be quite excitable, and it's nice for them to be able to go a bit faster with us. A few years ago our RDA branch was invited to the CLA Game Fair to do a display with some of our riders and horses. I was invited along to this to help, which was lots of fun, got to see the other displays as well and also go 'backstage'! There is also an annual sponsored ride at Blenheim Palace. I was invited to ride in this one year on one of the stable's ponies, Piglet. So I hope you can see being a helper comes with a lot of benefits!

Charlie and Speckles ready to roll at the CLA Gamefair (at Blenheim Palace)

I should also mention many of the kids from my lesson also competed at the National Championships this Summer, and did very well at it - so proud of them! It is great they have the opportunity to do such exciting things like this.

Laura riding like a pro at the National Championships!

One of the best things though is just the people - the helpers are all lovely, as is Gwen who leads the lesson. Although a lot of the riders come and go, there are two girls I have known from the start. Olivia was my first rider I ever helped, but now she is too good to need a leader! We are still bessies though and it was lovely to see her today and get a big hug. I started helping her when she was about 7 and she must be 12 now. Nyah is my proper little buddy - she is my regular rider to help as we get on so well (and she went through a stage of being a bit 'brattish' to other helpers...). She gives me pretty much the warmest welcome out of ANYONE whenever I've come home from uni in the hols. She's just started secondary school but when I joined RDA she was about 6 I think. Of course the horses are all wonderful too. Many times I have driven to RDA in a bad mood, tired or stressed or just not motivated. But never once have I failed to get in the car at the end of the night without finding a big smile on my face. It is just a brilliant thing to be involved in and a lovely atmosphere.

Leading a little girl at a funday, Gwen is in the yellow

If you'd like to know more about RDA in general the Telegraph are writing quite a bit about them ATM - here's an intro to the appeal. My particular group is the Abingdon RDA, website here.

Support us!

I hope I have maybe helped you see how great a charity this is and some of the good work they do. Needless to say, horses are very expensive creatures to keep, and my stables alone has 12 of them! Specialist tack is also needed for most of the riders. The riders are charged very little for lessons - nothing compared to what a regular stables would charge. Money for everything basically comes from fundraising.

 And if you don't have money, do you have time? They are always looking for more help, and I hope you can see how much fun it is.

Piglet having a well deserved rest! 


Christmas in... Belfast

The first point I want to make is that Christmas in Belfast is very, very COLD! It is NORTHern Ireland after all, and is about level with Scotland. I forgot how much colder it is in comparison to England until my English friends came over and had a bit of a shock!  We were already getting a little bit of snow by the time I left in mid-December, and I have experienced blizzards there before. Although it doesn't settle so much in the city itself, you can still see the snow-capped mountains from Belfast, I love it!

One of the biggest Christmas attractions is the Continental  Market which is set up next to the City Hall (where the recent MTV awards were!). It holds food from all over the world (Kangaroo burger anyone?), loads of eatables, genuine foreign people and a few nice crafty stores (but some tacky ones as well...). 

Taken about 5 minutes from my house


City Hall and Market

City Christmas Tree!


All sorts of weird and wonderful food...


Victoria Square Shopping Centre all dolled up!



Taken from Connor's house, out in the rural land!


The Belfast Christmas Fairy LOL!
This was Melissa in her blow-up ballerina costume for the Youth Christmas Party
Beautiful.

I'm looking forward to having a snowy Jan/Feb over there hopefully, and making use of the sledge! Wishing all my NI friends a very happy Christmas!
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Tuesday, 20 December 2011

Christmas in... Dublin

So, as mentioned a few posts ago, I travelled down to Dublin recently and had a sojourn around the city with the Boy. Although I think we missed all the interesting markets (they'd packed up for the night) there was still a good bit of Christmas spirit in the air, and lots of lights

I presume this means Merry Christmas or similar in Irish!

Pretty lights - makes a change from tacky light up Santas!

Lit up trees outside Trinity College

Big Christmas tree display made up of lit up spheres

OK, I nicked this pic, but it shows it much more clearly!

Busy, busy, busy

I find it quite an odd experience being in Ireland. In some ways there is a lot the same as the UK - same shops etc. But it also feels very foreign - everything written with Irish and English translations, and the use of Euros are probably the biggest changes. Also, if you want to buy an English produced magazine they seem to cost twice as much!

It's fun to visit somewhere foreign for Christmas though. I would love to go to Austria or Switzerland or the Alps sometime and stay in a Chalet for Christmas! Probably have to get myself a wage first.

Where would you like to spend Christmas for a change?
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Monday, 19 December 2011

Two Little Ducks, 22


It's been a while, hectic times all round! I flew back home on Saturday though and now having a lovely relax. Wonderful to have home cooked food, cosy house, tea/hot water bottles/food made for me! Spending my time in front of the fire with my lovely cat Fifa watching highlights from the Olympia horse show = perfect!

Last Friday (can't believe it was only a week-ish ago) some of my bessies from Uni (Ruth, Rach, Loren, Cam and also stowaway Michal!) flew over to Belfast to celebrate my 22nd with me. We had an awesome time!

Friday
I met them all at Europa bus station, and after some screaming and hugging we trekked back to my house. Had some lunch and a catch up then went into town, via a quick tour of my uni. Did a bit of shopping and pitstopped at Starbucks before heading on to the Continental Market for some german hotdog/hog roast/churros/mulled wine.

Loren and Rachel

Camilla and Michal

Ruth, Cam and Rach at Queen's

Ruth getting cosy at Topshop!!

Cam in disguise at Starbucks

Christmas tree loving in Victoria Square

German Sausage times!

Rach and Me dressed up for a night on the town

Saturday
My birthday! Lovely relaxed morning made complete with some present opening - felt very spoilt with lots of fab prezzies, thank you everyone! Then we had BREAKFAST CLUB - traditional birthday celebration from when we all used to be housemates. Loren, Ruth and Rach helped make pancakes, sausages, bacon, egg, toast, baked beans and a few tomatoes!

We then caught the train into Lisburn to LASER FORCE. Retro birthday times, Honor texted to remind me of the last time we went and Stuart entered his name as Sextus (still don't know why, something to do with Latin). Anyway had a GREAT time shooting 8 year olds, my team won and I was in the top 5 scorers ("yeoooo" as the Irish would say). Ruth tried to charm some freebies out of the laserforse man but he called her a psycho.

We hung out at Costa for a while, and I tried an expresso now that I'm All Grown Up. It wasn't bad. Ruth tried to subtley reassemble some failing Christmas decorations using a luggage sticker - noble but unsuccessful.

Then went on to Del Toro for some good food. Yum Yum. 

Finally got the train back and had some Northern Irish friends round, so was great to mingle the nationalities! Connor came and provided Elf, four tubs of Ben & Jerry's, and some flowers :) then Paul gave me a birthday pec dance and we played the cardboard box game.

Me and Rach at PJ o'clock

Lappy time - thanks for all the FB bday messages!

Present times! I look like a blind mole rat in the mornings.

Breakfast Prep!

Birthday Breakfast Club!

Ruth's personal bday dance for me :)

Station photoshoot


Ruth fixing Christmas.. without success

Rach, Cam and Lozzy smiley

Del Toro


Fish Pout!

Mi, Me and Ruthy

Eyebrow Exercise

Sticky Toffee goodness

Specially requested Eton Mess!

WE <3 LISBURN WOOO

Squinting like the letter B...

Dual nationality evening

GOOD NEWS! I saw a dog today

Roses and Ragu!

Sunday
Bit of a rushed morning to Church then on to AJ's for lunch. Connor and I both drove (using his and Grace's car) so had a mad rush of a convoy but it was fun! Then off to the airport for goodbyes :( Rach was flying from Dublin later that night so we went back to the Mcaleer house where she got sexually ravaged by Max the Dog. Then packed her off on the coach - more sad times!

Lunch Dinner Diner

Thankyou all for coming and giving me such a great birthday weekend! Looking forward to seeing you again at New Years.
Hope everyone is enjoying the run-up to Christmas. Remember, it's meant to be about joy and peace not stress! (Easier said than done I know!)
Less than a week to go!
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